Case and point!
But goofing is part of the learning curve. Learning from your mistakes are the best teachers. Somebody can tell you 100xs, yet all it takes is one lesson from life for you to learn. Not being hard headed, but you simply did not know and prudent warnings that you regret not taking heed to was the ironic reason in the end for the regret of not taking heed. Irony that will continue to happen in your life till a term appointed, and will continue to be best teachers. Such is life, and is quite difficult to escape such a karma wheel. But mistakes are still the best teachers, IMO.
*if you don't like reading, then stop here. if you are one who likes to learn stuff, especially from mistakes with personal examples provided and why I am still a knucklehead at times (car race kill story) then continue reading. if you care about life, something relevant lived by possibly everything yet unacknowledged by some may be learned*
More than once at times does it take lessons to be learned even when you learn from your own mistake first time it happens, and I'm more than guilty of this (Moral story with kill story, and reason why still a knucklehead at times at end: two car accidents to learn, and now have a clean record for maybe 10yrs+ by now). Once again again not being hard headed, but lessons are tougher for the human self to embrace at times. And still a knuckle head (hit 150+mph on the turnpike, but NJ people drive like maniacs. somebody tried to call out my little beater...and got left so bad he was no longer in my rear view mirror. spanked
. only been beat three times, and one time was with a smaller turbo so doesn't count. b8 s4 left me like I was parked lol. and I call out none, but people for some odd reason people think my car only "looks" fast and is just a B5. not just a B5, but an A4 aka Audi Peasant Mobile. Function and Form exists with the old school beater, and a very expensive hobby that you guys all know too well. lessons are taught by spank sessions, but a good 95% turn into a fun cruise with someone like me necessary to let another enjoy their hobby. good times.). End of the day, if lesson was not ignored then you are no longer ignorant to the lesson taught. And you can 100% say you are no longer ignorant to such a situation in life.
Subconsciously, you will now approach certain situations more wisely and that moral subconsciously is now applied to many things you do in life. That is for someone who cares, anyways. If you don't care, that goes without saying. Anyways, that approach and outlook is something not noticed and taken in that you now apply to many things you do in life, and it all starts from having your decision making more improved. Great starting ground, to avoid a goof. Such is life, and no reason to ask me how I know. Not for the ignorant (does not mean stupid, but if you didn't ignore and made it this far kudos to you)
Goof I learned by damaging last Elring gasket I picked up for like $20 shipped last year. What was a deal, turned $20 wasted. Lesson learned, NEVER work on your car at night (being frustrated should have been warning not to, but I can be a hard headed dude at times). Thought I had cylinder head on straight using using block dowels for guidance, and goal was to get block assembled and in car by end of day (short block already placed in car, because I find it much easier to put short block in first then head with goal to have long block placed together in car end of day. would get into details on this being second engine build, but makes long post even longer. another time, gentlemen. but involves other car that beat me, dude was 50yrs+ and car was 335i no way stock...and he called me out. totally my fault for build #2). Back dowel not seated correct when I thought it was. Front on correct. Can't get head bolt to thread down. Arrogance at it's finest. I decided to apply a little pressure and thinking head bolt can't find hole (why I thought this, just explained as pure arrogance or plain old silly). Doesn't budge so
now I decided to just lift the head up and see what is going on. Spun the head bolt onto rubber seal part of gasket...and now gasket is ruined. Because of that, I now have to order another one with the loss of that "so called" meal deal gasket out the window. $20 loss that end up costing more end of day and more time added. It's bull like this why you can never put a time frame on a project...EVER!!! Murphy has a Law not to be ignored. Then statements like "Expect the unexpected" which to me made absolutely no sense (it's an impossibility), is now acknowledged as a warning to be more prudent (33 years old, and just learned this now while typing). So in the case of car projects no time frame should be applied. You will be lying to yourself, others if you give them a time frame you believed to be true at the time, and cause yourself along with others frustration (ie wife for taking too long with what you said will take one week "tops". oh, you just had to throw "tops" in there too. or the good old fashion, "I should be able to get it done this weekend"...and no backup plan to get to work on Monday. seen one too many threads like this, with end results I can say were not too surprising. save yourself the aggravation and just say something along the lines of "I don't know, but will try and get it done quickly", have a back up plan for transportation on deck, and get sh*t done) all because you thought Murphy was a liar. Don't do it to yourself!!! You will be much happier, and hopefully less stressed during process since no deadline exists (that one week project got finished week 3, or that weekend project got finished Tuesday vs Sunday and you used two vacation days from work as a back up plan...back to work Wed).
/end novel that was able to be squeezed into a post (sorry Fletch for the out of control content, but I know you read and appreciated. non-ignorant people will, and hope when I use that word it is not viewed as slander because I don't look down upon others. but it's pure reasoning and definition behind that word with zero emotion involved should be understood)
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