Originally Posted by
hotleadsingergu
It has caused me zero pain. I was trying to be helpful, you inconsiderate git. You stand about a 5,000% better chance of finding someone to help if you're looking in a subforum specifically for your area. I posted a link to that subforum along with a reason why you might want to try that subforum, and you get defensive and complain that I shouldn't waste my time. If you tried reading my post, at all, you'd realize I said nothing to tell you not to post here, I did nothing to insult your character, and yet you still come back at me like I talked about your mother.
You're exactly the reason why people think this forum is filled with self-entitled clowns. I wonder why people don't want to help anyone.
Your phrasing wasn't exactly leading me to believe that you were being positive or trying to help. With the large number of forum members indeed being combative, trolls, or "post / thread placement police," I am sure you can understand the conclusion I jumped to. Semantics and phrasing matter to those who pay attention, and tone can be pretty hard to infer from direct, non-illustrative language. Your post struck me as having an annoyed tone, and if that wasn't your intent then I apologize for being curt.
As for name calling, not sure what from that reply would qualify me as contemptible, self-entitled, or inconsiderate, but to each their own. I'll cede snarky and flippant as that was my intended tone, but the slang from across the pond could well be left for posts demanding the vitriol of those who actually WANT to argue.
Again, apologies for any perceived slight, and thanks for pointing me in another direction.
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