I don't ****ing get this girl...

[kennious]

Alright, so we broke up a couple weeks ago because she was "hung up on the past" and whatnot. we still acted like we were going out for about a week after we broke up (kissing, ****ing,etc.) Then, sunday, she got super pissed at me because i told her best friend she lies to her. it was pretty funny, whatever. i bought her flowers because she was uber pissed and i felt kinda bad about it... i did kinda **** up, and i really like this girl. she basically said things can't be the same they used to be (us kissing and seeing eachother all the time even though we're not dating and whatever)... but i've seen her the past few days, a lot.

the other night her best friend got really drunk (it was her bday) so i helped her take care of her and everything... then she gave me a kiss on the cheek when i was saying goodnight to her. then today, i went to the mall with her to shop for college shit... and when i was saying goodbye to her she gave me a kiss on the lips. and then, saw a movie with some friends, her and her friends tonight and she came to my house after... and was like all over me tickling me and cuddling with me and stuff. no kiss... but a looong ass hug, and i could tell she was trying not to kiss me.

but what confuses me is that this weekend her ex had a party and lots of people slept over, and so did she. and she's been hanging out with him and his friends a lot... i just don't get her. i mean, it's not even that big of a deal because a week from RIGHT NOW i will be posting on AZ from iowa city... but i don't get this girl. and she is probably the coolest girl i have ever met... listens to my music, has a crazy/weird/ADD sense of humor like me, goes to shows and stuff with me, LIKES SEX... A LOT, and is gorgeous.

and then tonight, she put on an away message when she went to bed (she never does that...), and it said this:

Auto response from _____________: *Sleeping after a long day with someone who makes me smile*



sorry for the long ass post... but this girl is very confusing. again, not that it matters all that much, seeing as in a week i'll be 2 1/2 hours away... and my apologies for the rambling, i'm coming down from being high.

[JMG]

WTF?!?!??!

"*Sleeping after a long day with someone who makes me smile*"

That's fu(kin WAPCE x 100

I say forget about her. More fish in Iowa. It migh thurt but in the long run you are better off. You know she put that up just for you. That's some effed up shit.

[kennious]

i know she put it up for me. i told her i'm glad i still make her smile, and she replied "of course you make me smile babe"


she called me babe... she always called me that when we were dating, even on the envelope to my birthday card. she hasn't called me that since we broke up...

[JMG]

Originally posted by kennious
i know she put it up for me. i told her i'm glad i still make her smile, and she replied "of course you make me smile babe"


she called me babe... she always called me that when we were dating, even on the envelope to my birthday card. she hasn't called me that since we broke up...

wait... are you there right now? U mean she was sleeping with you? Or are you seeing this on AIM from somewhere else...

[kennious]

nono, after i saw the away message i said "i'm glad i make you smile still" or something. then she came back for a second to say what she said. this all took place online, about 20 mins after she left my house.

[JMG]

Originally posted by kennious
nono, after i saw the away message i said "i'm glad i make you smile still" or something. then she came back for a second to say what she said. this all took place online, about 20 mins after she left my house.

oh damn. I must be tired cause i thought she was "sleeping... with someone who makes me smile" that someone not being you. I just owned myself.

Either way WAPACE. It's all mind games.

[vladbe]

Seen it before. She broke up with you and still sleeps with you because she is waiting for something else to come along. When he does she will dump you. YOU NEED TO DUMP HER NOW! Its only gonna get worse! She might already have someone else in mind like all girls do before they dump someone. So look around for clues. But since you are moving might as well cut your losses. I am sure were you are going there are plenty of girls there.

[DarkkstaR]

Hit it and forget it.

[Tim0s002]

not to be mean but, Hit it one more time for the road.

"Either way WAPACE. It's all mind games." I gonna have to agree on this one.

Forgot to add this, try to part in good terms though.

[kennious]

my goal is to hit it again before i leave (thursday). hopefully i can keep the option open for when i come home (she's a senior in high school).

[shehatezme]

Originally posted by kennious
my goal is to hit it again before i leave (thursday). hopefully i can keep the option open for when i come home (she's a senior in high school).

JAILBAIT.... remember don't get STABBED in jail.

[quattroanillos5]

Originally posted by vladbe
Seen it before. She broke up with you and still sleeps with you because she is waiting for something else to come along. When he does she will dump you. YOU NEED TO DUMP HER NOW! Its only gonna get worse! She might already have someone else in mind like all girls do before they dump someone. So look around for clues. But since you are moving might as well cut your losses. I am sure were you are going there are plenty of girls there.

listen to this guy he knows what he is talking about......TRUST ME

[Live2Ski]

Originally posted by kennious
I dont ****ing get this girl....

Dude, dont even try to figure women out. Guys will NEVER understand them. As soon as you come to this revelation, your life will get that much easier.

[kennious]

OKAY, WHAT THE MOTHER****.

So she just came over for like an hour and a half because she had a meeting for school or some bullshit, and then a doctors appointment 2 hours later. her house is 20 minutes from both, but my house is like 2 minutes from both... so she thought she'd come chill at my house inbetween the two instead of driving ~40 minutes extra.

we ****ing made out like the entire time, and would've had sex if my mom weren't in the other room. i don't ****ing get this. **** this girl.

[SSiNeDD]

Dude Get Laid and Dont strain urself, If she wants u as a Bf thas even better. U better do it before u go away 2 school =)

[kennious]

I need advice here. What the **** do I do? I hope this didn't make things awkward so it won't happen again... because if sometime in the next week this happens again at night... we WILL have sex.

What should I say/do?

[SSiNeDD]

Dude dont bring it up, dont say nothin,keep cool, and if she comes over again and u start making out Just whip ur **** out !! that always makes em do flips!!

[kennious]

if i have her alone again, it will happen. don't worry.

[dukez]

Its time you take your own advice. Stab her.

[kennious]

Stab her with my penis.

[dukez]

Isnt that how you got into this mess? Put it away.

[kennious]

No. Why waste the opportunity before I go back to school?

[boost junkie]

DONT DO IT. I had a psycho grilfriend like this before, and you need to ditch that shit asap, and here's why. All she is doing is trying to make herself feel more secure. Because she isn't technically with you anymore, she feels like she needs someone to shower her with attention (and sex). Because she feels alone, she is using you. Once she finds someone new she is interested in, she will move on and leave you behind. She will lead you on like she is really into you and then, seemingly without reason, just change her mind. I'm not saying this will necessarily happen to you, but I was in a similar situation to you once and this all did happen to me and it SUCKED. In retrospect, I would have been much better off if I had told her I didn't want to hook up with her anymore after we broke up. Just trying to save you some unneeded stress, I don't know either of you so your situation mihgt be a lot different than mine.

[Meesh]

haha, chick advice from az is funny. btw, what in the hell does WAPACE mean?

[kennious]

WAPCE = Women Are Pure, Concentrated Evil

[Meesh]

i like WAW, much simpler... women are wack, simple as that.

[kennious]

well, considering i'm white, i'll stick to WAPCE.

"wack" isn't in my vocabulary.

[Howard Hughes]

Are you still in High School Kennious.?

[Quattrotakis]

a week from RIGHT NOW i will be posting on AZ from iowa city...

OK Dude, A Week from now you will not care about any of your past girlfriends. Your about to be baptised into Hawkeyedom! YOu will do more kissing and humping in your first week of college at Iowa City then you'd ever imagine. Keg races at 7AM on Gamedays (Big 10 football baby!) you'll still be awake from friday night!! Forget about your ex-gf and get focus on Iowa City!!!!!

[Mark]

the majority of women are manipulative and simply a pain in the ass.

move on, find a more compatable woman.

[kennious]

Originally posted by Quattrotakis
OK Dude, A Week from now you will not care about any of your past girlfriends. Your about to be baptised into Hawkeyedom! YOu will do more kissing and humping in your first week of college at Iowa City then you'd ever imagine. Keg races at 7AM on Gamedays (Big 10 football baby!) you'll still be awake from friday night!! Forget about your ex-gf and get focus on Iowa City!!!!!

i sure hope so

i am drunk


some girl showed me her nipple rings tonight

[Quattrotakis]

that's it...??? I will need to teach you game. U shoulda been suckin on dem nips

[OverSpun]

dude, dont stress it. just leave to school on good terms. your gonna be too far away anyhow so dont sweat it. girls are stupid, and in my world, thats a proven fact. just accept what it is, and move on to college where you'll find plenty more girls to choose from.

[kennious]

that was my plan nick. i figure if i can have sex with her again, cool. if i can't, whatever. i'll have as many girls as i want in less than a week.


if i weren't moving, i would definitely tell her to **** off... but why ruin a friendship when i'm leaving anyway?

[OverSpun]

yea... i give you props if you can continue being friends with her.. somehow i never can do that. it never works.

[kennious]

it's easy when you still make out/have sex with them.

[OverSpun]

yea. thats true. thats about as long as my "friendships" with exs last... until i just stop calling them and such. Because i agree with boost junkie.. they only do that so they have attention until they get someone new.. and i usually dont like that status. so once i get sick of them. its off they go.