So this is officially the worst week, ever.

[kennious]

Following the best weekend of my summer, everything comes crashing down. First the death of my friend, which I made a thread about earlier... then, the same day, I got a speeding ticket. 55 in a 35. This was the day after my birthday, and I'm almost in tears because of the news of my friend, and the cop says to me "happy birthday. slow down."


So then Tuesday my girlfriend finds out her ex-boyfriend of two years cheated on her like a year ago, and she's really upset about it. I'm thinking why is she so upset? They broke up, and now she has me... I don't treat her like shit, like he did. She talks with him Tuesday night, and was acting really weird weds/thurs.


Yesterday was the wake for my friend... very sad indeed. They had his football jersey hanging in the coffin, and his Jeep parked out front.


So last night, we were going to a concert (going to see Brazil), and she took forever to get ready. Brazil was the only band we wanted to see at the 4-band show, little did we know they played first... so we missed them. Later, we go back to her house, and start talking. She basically tells me she wants to break up... but it's her, not me! YEAH, RIGHT. She tells me all this bullshit about how I'm the greatest guy she's ever met, etc... but she's not completely over her ex, and feels that she can't get over someone when she's dating someone new. It's not that she wants to get back together with him, it's that she needs more time, and she feels we rushed into things. OH, OKAY. Makes a lot of sense. NOT. WAPCE


So today at work I was brooding over what happened last night... I really like this girl and stuff. It's really hard to deal with little kids when your mind is preoccupied with other stuff. Then, I came home for lunch, and my mom told me the lump they found in my aunt's breast is cancerous. And this is my aunt whose husband is in prison...



In summation, this is the worst week ever. I feel like I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I really need a drink... I haven't drank in forever.


However, right now, I'm going to figure things out with my girlfriend... wish me luck.

[Jon_Rhea]

Man, sorry to hear all of that. Hope things work out with you and your girl. Keep your head up, things will turn around

[SEXICÄN]

How long have you and your gf been together? What does she need more time to do? Girls are dumb and are very emotional, and tend to do, what we all know is wrong, but to them seems to be right(the whole ex thing). Shit will hit the fan once she "talks" things over with her ex, and she will be wanting you back. Once this happens, i say make her work for your forgiveness.

Not to make you get paranoid, but sounds like she isn't over her ex. If she doesn't want to date you because of her ex, there has to be some "other" reason besides "its not you, its me". What she should have just said was, "i'm not over my ex". About 75% of my friends are girls, and they tell me everything, and this sounds like another case of i still like my ex.

Thats pretty shitty about all this stuff happening this week, but wait, just like probability, you have pretty much used up all of your "things can't get worse" and now you are about to get the "Things can't get much better".

I hope things work out for you though

[JMG]

It is her. She's jacked in the head along with most of the female population at her age. I'm pretty sure it's not you. Seems like she has issues with this ex of hers. Chicks get confused and make stupid mistakes. Sorry about your aunt too... hopefully she will win her fight against it. All is not lost.

[npb]

Originally posted by kennious
I got a speeding ticket. 55 in a 35.

Me too... last week. Sorry to hear about everything--Keep on keepin' on!

[kennious]

Whatever... we broke up. We'll still be friends... it was a really weird breakup. Not an ugly breakup at all, and we'll still be friends... I know that's hard to do, but I know we will be friends. Even after we talked and broke up and whatever, we drove around a little more and we just talked like normal, and it felt good. We're actually going to a Cubs game Sunday (she got me tickets for my birthday), and I don't forsee it being weird at all. This timing is just terrible.... at least I have closure now, and I'm not sitting here wondering whether we'll stay together or not.

[SEXICÄN]

Same thing with me and my ex, we are best friends. I think thats good in a way, cause you will always have a friend there for you. Good to hear at least one of your things has already happened.

[OverSpun]

damn man... sorry to hear all that.. you got my AIM if you want to talk. hopefully everything will get better soon.

[AspenSti]

WAPCE

[MR VTEC]

Girls ddnt get smarter when they get older either!

[jpsimon]

wapce

[DRA4]

Once i finished with a girl, i can't stay as friend with them, don't know why, but i just can't.

[AspenSti]

they should all be shot

[chrisrunner]

wapce is damn straight...theyre all nuts and the only reason we deal with them is for poon tang.

chris.